The SoftLanding Circle
A monthly space to sit with grief, love and loss, gently and creatively, alongside others who understand.
grief + community

what it is
Grief doesn't stop when the funeral ends, and most of us don't get many places to keep talking about it. The Circle is one of those places.
Each month brings a new theme, something to read, something to make and a small way to remember. You can take part quietly from home, or join others to share. There's no right way to be here, and you don't need to be newly bereaved to belong.
each month
What arrives, month by month
A letter
A personal note from me exploring the month's theme.
A making prompt
A simple creative exercise, drawing on art therapy, to do at your kitchen table.
A small ritual
A gentle practice to honour someone you're missing.
A gathering
A circle, in person in Sydney or online, to share and listen.
This month's theme
"The Things We Keep"
The objects we can't let go of, and why.
ways to join
Three ways in
Letters
Monthly letter, making prompt and ritual, sent by email, plus the archive.
Monthly · pause anytime · pricing shared on enquiry
Begin hereLetters by post
Everything in Letters, plus a small envelope in the mail with printed pieces and a keepsake.
Monthly · pause anytime · pricing shared on enquiry
Begin hereThe full Circle
Everything above, plus a monthly 90-minute gathering, in person or online.
Monthly · pause anytime · pricing shared on enquiry
Begin herecoming soon
Be first to know when the Circle opens
The Soft Landing Circle is coming soon. Leave your email and I'll write to you the moment the doors open — no spam, just a gentle note when it's time.
one-to-one grief support
If you'd rather talk privately, I also offer one-to-one grief sessions for anyone missing a person or an animal. Around 50 minutes, in person in Sydney's Inner West or online.
good to know
- The Circle isn't therapy or a crisis service, and I'm not a psychologist.
- New themes arrive on the 1st of each month.
- Gatherings are optional, and you can come as often or as rarely as you like.
- It's open to all beliefs, and none.
come as you are, whenever you're ready
Soft Landing isn't a crisis service. If you're struggling, call Lifeline on 13 11 14 (24 hours), Griefline on 1300 845 745, or 000 in an emergency.
Not sure where to begin?
Book a free 20-minute conversation. There's no pressure, and you don't need to have the right questions.
Soft Landing isn't a crisis service. If you're struggling, call Lifeline on 13 11 14 (24 hours), Griefline on 1300 845 745, or 000 in an emergency.